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Photography Styles:
There are three main styles of wedding photography that you'll come across- traditional, reportage and contemporary.
*TRADITIONAL- This refers to the classic, posed shots that have been the norm since the dawn of wedding photography- the classic album-filters. The photographer organises people into poses and groups using a structured approach that makes it easier to get all the shots.
*REPORTAGE- This is newer style of wedding photography, where the photographer acts more like a photojournalist making a documentary of the day, taking pictures with his subjects unaware. Your pictures will look a lot more relaxed.
*CONTEMPORARY- The latest style to develop has arisen from the way glossy magazines cover celebrity weddings. It basically blends the traditional format with a fashion shoot to create sumptuous 'lifestyle' images, with some reportage shots mixed in for good measure.
Choosing a PHOTOGRAPHER
Preparing for your WEDDING DAY can be a long and arduos task. When the day finally arrives, having put so much effort into getting everything just so, you will want a beautiful, permanent record of the event as it can be over in the blink of an eye. In the months and years to come your dream dress will be stored away, the cake will no long be eaten and few will remember the weather or the meal. Memories though can live on and, in your wedding photographs, you will have a record of all you will want to remember, the emotions, both the silly and the serious moments.
A good photographer is not just a recorder, he is a storyteller and your choice of wedding photographer should be one of your most careful considerations. In addition to this being one of your largest investments for the event, your wedding album will depict the story of your marriage and it will be the primary way in which you will remember your day.
Most couples want natural photos while parents may look for more formal styles.
Services and contracts vary widely. Some will charge a flat fee and others will charge by the hour for their time and an additional charge for prints and album. In general it is not a good idea to choose a package that limits shots to a certain number. Photographers who are concentrating on the number of shots are not necessarily concentrating on what's going on around them.
The day itself..Having someone responsible for organising the group photos from the wedding party is essential. A bossy sister or cousin is an ideal candidate for the job! The photographer is not going to necessarily know who is to be photographed, so the sooner the families are organised, the sooner they can get back to the important job of having a good time. If you want a full group photo of all the guests, it is a good idea to ask for a photo to be taken from a balcony, or a raised area from which everyone can be seen. Sometimes there will be an additional photographer up at the balcony, so that the camera is set up and ready to go for this photo. If young children are involved, make sure the photos are done early on the day as children are usually exhausted by the evening.
taken from: THE PERSONAL WEDDING PLANNER MAGAZINE
Wedding Video?
So, you're working out to your wedding budget and wondering; 'Do really need to get a video as well as a photo album?'
Ask anyone who has who has spent money on a videographer for their wedding day and they'll tell you it was money well spent. There is an immediacy about things captured on video that you just can't get from photographs, no matter how wonderful and evocative they are. Video allows you to capture all the sights and sounds of a situation; the last minute utterings as you leave your home to get into the wedding car; the anticipation as he waits for you at the altar; the buzz in the church; the music; the hush as the vows are spoken; the discreetly hidden tears being wiped away.
Often a video is the only record of your first words to each other after the ceremony as you sign the register together.
Video has the added advantage of capturing the voices and mannerisms of those who won't always be around too, and while it may not be viewd all that often as the years pass, a video is a true record that will bring back those people vividly with the flick of a switch.
contact MICHAEL TREHY- 0862755805 ; 05232196
videographer for 20 years covering all over Ireland
Getting Married in IRELAND
Whether planning to marry in Ireland or Northern Ireland it is advisable to make contact with an officiant or celebrant as soon as possible. Requirements may vary depending on your status so your officiant is best placed to advise you of all the correct documentation you will need to facilitate the solemnising of your marriage.
For a marriage to be legal inIreland both parties must have the capacity to marry each other, freely consent to the marriage and observe the necessary formalities. You must be both 18; be single, widowed or divorced in Ireland or have a state annulment or a valid foreign divorce; be of the opposite sex; and not be related by blood or marriage to a degree that prohibits a marriage between you.
Getting MARRIED ABROAD
Marriages which takes place outside Ireland are normally registered in the country in which they occur and are not registered in Ireland by a registrar or the general register office. If you plan to marry abroad you should ensure that all the legal requirements of the country in question are met, and should enquire as to the procedure for obtaining a marriage certificate from that country. Tha relevant Embassy or religious authorities may be able to advise.
If marriage certificate is in a foreign language, it should be normally be accepted for official purposes in Ireland if accompanied by an official translation from a recognised translation agency. Both parties to a marriage contracted abroad must be over 18 for the marriage to be valid in Irish Law.
Certificate of Freedom to marry (also known as Civil Letters of Freedom, Certificates de coutume or certificates of Nulla Osta) which state that a person is not married, also required. Irish citizens can obtain such a certificate from the Consular Section of the Department of Foreign Affairs, 72-76 St. Stephen's Green, Dublin 2, Tel# 01 408 2568. Irish Citizens living abroad should contact their nearest Irish Embassy.
Rehearsal Dinner
We often see REHEARSAL DINNER in the hollywood wedding movie. A Rehearsal dinner usually includes all the members of both families and their partners. It is customary to invite the celebrant too, although you may find that they decline the invitation. It's a lovely tradition that allows a couple's families to meet properly before the wedding day and get to know each oher in a relaxed environment. The meal is often a formal, sit down affair in a restaurant or hotel but could just as easily be a more relaxed get together in your parents home, or local restaurant. Whatever you choose, it's just dinner- and certainly nothing to get stressed out about.
WEDDING DAY CHECKLIST
FOR THE BRIDE
*Have a lie-in -there's a big day ahead!
*Enjoy a leisurely breakfast
*Wait for delivery of flowers and check all OK
*Wear comfortable clothing for hair and make-up
*Hair salon- allow for delays!
*Make-up -Bride taken care of last for maximum impact for photos, etc
*Have a sandwich or light meal before getting ready- it's a long day ahead
*Have help getting dressed
*Put on your favourite music and enjoy!
*Have any photographs taken at home before leaving
*Something old, something new- all accounted for?
*Be ready just before leaving for the church (you won't be able to sit down!)
*Spend time laughing and enjoying the wedding atmosphere
*Make sure you have lipstick, tissues and any good luck charms in your bridal bag
*Walk up the aisle!!!
FOR THE GROOM
*Have a lie-in -there's a big day ahead!
*Enjoy a leisurely breakfast
*If applicable, collect any last items
*Have a sandwich or light meal before getting ready- its a long day ahead!
*Enjoy a long shower and take time getting ready
*Be ready to leave the house 1 hour befor the ceremony
*Check all wedding rings- Best Man to the ready!
*Make sure honeymoon luggage is taken care of
*Give payment for any entertainers or suppliers to Best Man
*Get to the church 30 minutes before the ceremony
from SOUTHEAST WEDDING MAGAZINE
The 30-minute Relaxation Session
WEDDING PLANNING sometimes come with the danger of developing a stressed outlook complete with an exhausted face and unhealthy skin. When matched with the varying emotions one undergoes before the wedding day, this phase may keep you from knocking your groom off his feet without your natural glow.
Anyone who has gotten married would know that wedding planning is no joke and the stress that comes from it can be overwhelming at times but, it is your day and you deserve to enjoy every second of that well-planned day with a happy smile and radiant skin. So,if you could not afford a trip to the SPA, bring it to your home with this 30-minute relaxation session to revitalize your mind and body for that ONCE IN A LIFETIME PARTY.
STEP ONE: Prep up the throne
Whether it may be a reclined lay-z boy or a comfy couch, your relaxing throne is very important in this de-stressing session. An awkward position may even cause more stress so make sure that you have ample pillows to rest your arms and pillows to support your neck.
STEP TWO: Turn on the music
To achieve a SPA-like ambiance, you can play nature music on your stereo. There is something about the chirping of the birds and the sounds of flowing water that relaxes the senses. The music of nature is readily available in record bars and playing it during the session can create a refreshing mood for your mind, body and spirit. However, ifyou want to add a little romance to the air, you can also play classic guitar and violin instrumentals of your favorite love songs.
STEP THREE: Set the mood
More than serving as cute and lovely decors, scented candles and oil lamps serve as relaxing treats simply by lighting them. It is important to set the mood through the therapeutic fragrances these emit, not to mention the calming dim-lighting effect it brings. The scents of lavender and ylang-ylang both encourage relaxation, calming while promoting restful sleep as it reduces stress. The lime and eucalyptus scents on the other hand, uplift the mood and relieve mental fatigue.
STEP FOUR: Prepare the foot soak
The feet contain nerves connected to different parts of the body so pampering them gives the rest of your body a relaxing treat. Simply prepare a basin or pail (bucket) of warm water and mix it with foot soak salts with the same scent as that of your candles. You can even let a few pieces of orchids float on the water of the basin to complete the look. Set the basin or pail (bucket) at the foot of your throne.
STEP FIVE: Set the eye pack
Some say that the eyes are the window to one's soul so it is important to keep them looking fresh and sparkling. For eye packs to soothe those tired eyes, you can either buy them from beauty shops or simply get two slices of refrigerated cucumber slices. Set them on your throne's arm rest or within easy reach.
STEP SIX: Relax!
Now it is time to de-stress and blow your worries away with this delightful treat you prepared. Turn on the music, light up the candles and get into that ''SPA MOOD''. Slip into your snug throne and feel the warm water as you dip your feet into your foot soak. Lay back, relax and place your eye packs for a cool experience as you begin your 20 minutes of blissful solitude. This is the time for you to clear your mind and enjoy this beautifying break.
from WEDDING ESSENTIALS MAGAZINE
The Groom's Speech
10 Golden Rules for making the perfect speech!
Every bride wants to see her groom's eyes water on their wedding day. Just make sure it doesn't happen in the moments after he taps hos glass with his fork. Tear out these 10 rules of speech making for your groom-to-be and ensure that you'll be a blushing bride for all the right reasons.
1.PREPARE WELL- This one time when a 'dog ate my homework' excuse will not cut the mustard. Start preparing your speech months in advance; carrying a notebook for ideas, asking married friends for advice and surfing the net.
2. GIVE IT A STRUCTURE- Remember the important elements: welcome everyone, thanking the parents, complimenting your bride and so on. Then build around this.
3. DON'T BE TOO SPECIFIC- Make sue that everyone can relate to what you're saying, even those who don't know the wedding party so well. Avoid in-jokes and ensure that personal stories are enjoyable for everyone.
4. KEEP IT FRIENDLY- Don't be too formal in your language or manner. Remember that this presentation is for friends, not work.
5. KEEP IT SNAPPY- Keep to a ten-minute time limit. Be ruthless about sticking to it - ten minutes is more than enough time to charm everyone in the room.
6. ROAD TEST IT- Read it out to a chosen few or, if you'd prefer to keep it under wraps, record it to hear how it sound to others. Keep rehearsing it.
7. TAKE DEEP BREATHS- Remember that everyone is there specifically to make this the happiest day of your life so far. This is the most receptive audience you can possible get. There is nothing to be afraid of!
8. STAND AND DELIVER- Do your speech justice. Stand up staright, puff your chest out and speak clearly.
9. BE INCLUSIVE- Make eye contact with your guests, especially those on both sides of the family.
10. ENJOY YOURSELF- You'll probably find yourself enjoying without realising it. So go with it; laugh when your guests laugh, thank people with all your heart and end it all with all your heart arousing toast!
taken from: IRISH BRIDES MAG
Best Man's DOs and DON'Ts
*DON'T make inappropriate jokes: a certain amount of ribbing of the groom is expexted but remember, if great Aunt Fidelma can't take it, it shouln't be said.
*DON'T make a drunken speech: You may NEVER live it down.
*DON'T make any mention of: the stag weekend, his previous girlfriends, and the talent among the bridesmaids.
*DO express your delight at the match and your best wishes for the future.
*DO keep it short and sweet: seven minutes maximum.
*DO savour it: once it's over, the attention will be off you and back on the bride and groom. Have fun!
taken from: IRISH MAG
Honeymoon Checklist!
1-Visit a variety of travel agents for brochures
2-Spend time considering as many destinations as possible
3-Compare prices with travel agents to ensure best value
4-Check seasonality of destination-peak or low season?
5-Consider vaccinations-ask your travel agent and doctor for advice
6-Ensure valid passports to hand
7-Allow 1 month to organise passports for safety,more in summer
Organise foreign currency
8-Buy new suitcases or appropriate luggage
9-Organise travel insurances(if not handled by travel agent)
10-Make packing list
11-Make arrangements for house-minding while you're away
12-Go shopping for any missing items
13-Don't forget sun protection creams, insect repellants
14-Buy plug adaptors for destination
15-Pack for the honeymoon a week or 2 prior to wedding
16-Arrange with best man to take care of honeymoon luggage on wedding day
17-Store travel documents and foreign currency in a safe place until neede
18-Buy any remaining items needed at airport as things will be busy enough!
19-Sit back, relax and enjoy!
FLOWERS- meanings
Crocus- New Life
Daffodil- Respect
Daisy- Innocence
Hyacinth- Rebirth
Iris- Power
Lilac- First Love
Lily of the Valley- Health
Pansy- Happiness
Tulip- Joy
from SOUTHEAST WEDDING MAGAZINE
Changing Your Name After Marriage
Below are the list of some of the organisations you need to advise of your name change:
Bank Institutes such as Universities etc
Building society Insurance Companies
Car Finance Internet provider
Credit card and Store cards Investment Companies including premium bonds and shares
Clubs and Societies Mail order catalogue companies
Dentist Mortgage Provider
Department of Social Welfare Passport Office
Doctor Pension Company
Driving License Provider Employer
Email Address Family
Finance/Loan Companies
SHOULD YOU REQUIRE ANY FURTHER INFORMATION PLEASE CONTACT YOUR LOCAL CITIZENS INFORMATION OFFICE OR VISIT www.citizensinformation.ie